In Memory of Our Friends

September 23, 1961 – January 28, 2009

On January 28, Jody Shevin conveyed the sad news to us that Kathy Watson had died that morning.  Jody has sent this comforting poem that appeared in the program at Kathy’s funeral.

God saw that she was getting tired,
And a cure was not to be,
So He put His arms around her
And whispered, “Come with Me.”
With tearful eyes we watched
her suffer and saw her fade away
Although we couldn’t bear to lose her,
We could not bid her stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard-working hands were laid to rest;
God broke our hearts to prove to us –
He only takes the best.

Kathy’s family suggested that any donations in Kathy’s memory be made to AAUW or Ovarian Cancer Research.

Memories of Kathy

By now, many of you are aware of the death of our fellow branch member, Kathy Watson. She was a beloved friend to many of us and an invaluable asset to our organization. She will be sorely missed. Kathy preferred to work behind the scenes, so many of you may not realize the hours of service that she gave to AAUW. She was assistant-in-chief to Jody Shevin, for many years, on fundraising projects. She assisted me on all of the brochures, announcements, and flyers when I was Program V.P. for the branch. She was a founding member of Cuisine Cruising and Chix Flix and was always available to provide a delicious dish or a beautifully designed piece of paperwork for any occasion in our branch. More importantly, she always was a liberal dispenser of smiles, compliments, and encouragement. Kathy had a kind heart that embraced those in difficulty.

In 2005, Kathy and Jody ran the hospitality room for our state AAUW convention. They got to know one of the recipients of our Legal Advocacy Fund (LAF) funds, Charlotte McMahon, Ph.D., at this event. Kathy was very impressed with Dr. McMahon and encouraged Rochester Branch members to donate to LAF as a result. Kathy also was a supporter of education for women and felt, based on her own experience, that women needed the ability to support themselves.

I ask you to join me in honoring Kathy’s memory by contributing to one or more of the tax exempt AAUW contribution options, in her name. Gifts to the Leadership Scholarships Fund can be mailed to Sharon Krumrei ( Make checks payable to: Rochester Community Foundation – AAUW Leadership Scholarship.

Contributions to the Educational Foundation (EF), or the Legal Advocacy Fund (LAF), can be sent to Carol Quintal ( Enclose a note or use the note space on the check to specify that your contribution is being made in honor of Kathy Watson. Make the checks payable to: AAUW – Educational Foundation, or AAUW – Legal Advocacy Fund. Your memorial contribution will be a nice way to help Kathy’s legacy live on, although we will continue to miss her.

—Rebecca Oetjens


Memories of Anita

Anita Gaydos … a member of AAUW for 46 years and the Rochester Branch since 2002. Anita and her daughter Nancy were not only our Branch mother/daughter team but also represented two generations of strong women. Anita served on the Branch hospitality committee and participated in many of the Branch activities.

She was the wife of Dr. Leonard Gaydos, the mother of five children and a graduate of Queen of Angels School of nursing in Los Angeles and Heidelberg College in Tiffin, Ohio. Anita also served during WWII (1942-46) as a US Navy nurse and continued to attend the reunions of the U.S.S. Solace hospital ship every year.

After raising her children, Anita continued her career by teaching nursing classes and pioneering a program at a local hospital for high school seniors interested in becoming “nurse assistants.” She also founded the Community Hospice Care Program for Seneca County, Ohio and served on countless charity boards like the Easter Seal Society and the United Way.

For fun, Anita loved to fish and took a yearly trip to Belize to catch the “big ones”! Her children, grandchildren and even a great granddaughter accompanied her. Over the years Anita traveled to Australia, China, Alaska, Italy, Mexico and many other great places with her family and friends.

Anita will long be remembered for her commitment to the community and Rochester AAUW.

A scholarship in her name will be awarded to a graduating senior at the May 19 annual dinner held at Great Oaks Country Club.

Donations should be made out to: Community Foundation of Rochester and sent to: Bev Paurazas scholarship chair. 248-651-2223

—Sharon Postnieks